瞳瞳的世界 发表于 03-20 07:07
Dear friends,
After 13 years and 2 beautiful children together, Yale and I have parted our ways. Yale moved out last week.
各位亲们，
结婚13年和生了两个娃儿之后，我屋头那个和我终于散了哈。他上星期已经搬起走了。
亲爱的小戴同学，
过去N年里头，你娃把我们屋头卡卡角角的事都搞得醒活得很。你晓得我们娃儿啥子时候切踢足球，还晓得他们啥子时候切游泳。你甚至还晓得他们的小名。2009年12月18号，我把我的娃儿盘上中午的飞机一起到美国切度圣诞。你娃倒好，在2009年12月18号的同一天，巴起来和他跑到普济岛切逍遥、到曼谷切腐败。你们的圣诞节过得才安逸得！小戴，同为一个女人，你有没有想过，你们耍得倒是起劲得很哦，整得我们孤儿寡母的莫得火烤！小戴，我经常问我个人，你和别个女人的老公、别个娃儿的老汉儿睡是啥子感觉？你想过没得，我们几娘母也是有血有肉的喃？我们也是有感情的，我们竟然也遭别个整、整得啷个痛、整得啷个惨！我在想，你是不是晓得你娃在毁掉别个的家庭？你是不是晓得别个的眼泪花换来的是你个人爽得起劲的经历？
上个星期，我们切北京过春节。你的衣服就挂在我们北京的屋头。我们儿惊叫唤：“妈，不要摸哈，这些衣服稀脏邋遢得很，烧了烧了！烧成灰灰！鬼大爷才穿！”很显然，我们娃儿都遭受刺激了。我们女，才9岁，现在就说“妈，我不想结婚。”我们才8岁的儿说：“小戴是龟儿子！”你们在外头乱搞，已经把我们娃儿幼小的心灵摧残成这个样子！他们的创伤是永久性的！要得，我承认，你得行！
想不想晓得我又是咋个想的，小戴？你们在外头乱搞，这件事就象在我心尖尖上戳了千次万次。这件事留给我的痛我都不晓得啥子时候才能够医好。泪如雨下，无穷无尽。这件事把我整得就象行尸走肉。我也不晓得咋个才活得下切。但是因为有娃儿，我也只能活到起。小戴，我祝愿你永远不要经历这种背叛和伤害。我祝你和他永远幸福地在一起，因为是个女人都应该得到幸福。
可恶心虚男人的回信：
莉莉,
请你不要把屋头的事搞得啷个哦火朝天的嘛！实际上，我们的婚姻8年前就莫得演了，更何况5年前就开始说离婚，到现在也没整伸展。我们的事情整得全世界都晓得了，何必喃！小戴没有做错啥子事哈！我要一直给她扎起的哈！我们还想哪天结婚得，抓子嘛！
只晓得用这种方式给别个说我和小戴有好恶毒是不得行的哈！晓得你、我和我们婚姻的人，都是给我扎起的，包括某某！我也莫法，把啷个多的人扯起进来了。莉莉，你挺起三，往前看三！
Dear Diane/Tao Dan Yang,
Over the past couple of years, you knew everything about my family. You knew when my kids had their soccer tournaments, you knew when they had their swimming practices. You even knew their baby nicknames. On December 18th, 2009, on a noon flight, I took my children to the U.S. for Christmas vacation. On the very same day, December 18th, 2009, on an afternoon flight, you and Yale took off for the beaches of Phuket and shopping streets of Bangkok for Christmas vacation. Diane, as a fellow woman, I often wondered if the level of ecstasy this vacation had brought you equates to the level of devastation this vacation had brought to my children and me. Diane, I often asked myself what was it like for you to sleep in the arms of another woman’s husband, other children’s father? I wondered if you ever thought about us, the children and the wife, that we are made of flesh and blood, that we have feelings, that we could get hurt, very hurt, devastatingly hurt. I pondered if you knew you were destroying a family, if you knew your joy would bring endless tears to us.
We went to Beijing last week for Chinese New Year. Your clothes were in our Beijing home. My son screamed:” Mommy, don’t touch those, they are disgusting! Set them on fire, burn them to hell. They are the devil’s cloth!” My children are hurt. My daughter, 9 years old, now says “Mommy, I don’t ever want to get married.” My son, 8 years old, says “Diane is our Voldemort!” The psychological damage this affair has done to my children is catastrophic. They are forever emotionally damaged. With this, I announce you the winner.
How do I feel, Diane? This affair is like 10 thousand knives stabbing and chopping my heart all at once. This affair has left me in so much pain that I don’t know how to heal myself. This affair has taught me tear supply can actually be infinite. This affair has crushed me, leaving me a corpse walking around with no heart. I don’t know how to deal with this kind of pain. I don’t know how to move on. But I have children. I must move on. Diane, I pray to God that you will never have to experience this kind of betrayal and hurt. I wish you and Yale a happy life together because, after all, we are all women and we all deserve to be happy.
With sincere regards,
Lily
After 13 years and 2 beautiful children together, Yale and I have parted our ways. Yale moved out last week.
各位亲们，
结婚13年和生了两个娃儿之后，我屋头那个和我终于散了哈。他上星期已经搬起走了。
亲爱的小戴同学，
过去N年里头，你娃把我们屋头卡卡角角的事都搞得醒活得很。你晓得我们娃儿啥子时候切踢足球，还晓得他们啥子时候切游泳。你甚至还晓得他们的小名。2009年12月18号，我把我的娃儿盘上中午的飞机一起到美国切度圣诞。你娃倒好，在2009年12月18号的同一天，巴起来和他跑到普济岛切逍遥、到曼谷切腐败。你们的圣诞节过得才安逸得！小戴，同为一个女人，你有没有想过，你们耍得倒是起劲得很哦，整得我们孤儿寡母的莫得火烤！小戴，我经常问我个人，你和别个女人的老公、别个娃儿的老汉儿睡是啥子感觉？你想过没得，我们几娘母也是有血有肉的喃？我们也是有感情的，我们竟然也遭别个整、整得啷个痛、整得啷个惨！我在想，你是不是晓得你娃在毁掉别个的家庭？你是不是晓得别个的眼泪花换来的是你个人爽得起劲的经历？
上个星期，我们切北京过春节。你的衣服就挂在我们北京的屋头。我们儿惊叫唤：“妈，不要摸哈，这些衣服稀脏邋遢得很，烧了烧了！烧成灰灰！鬼大爷才穿！”很显然，我们娃儿都遭受刺激了。我们女，才9岁，现在就说“妈，我不想结婚。”我们才8岁的儿说：“小戴是龟儿子！”你们在外头乱搞，已经把我们娃儿幼小的心灵摧残成这个样子！他们的创伤是永久性的！要得，我承认，你得行！
想不想晓得我又是咋个想的，小戴？你们在外头乱搞，这件事就象在我心尖尖上戳了千次万次。这件事留给我的痛我都不晓得啥子时候才能够医好。泪如雨下，无穷无尽。这件事把我整得就象行尸走肉。我也不晓得咋个才活得下切。但是因为有娃儿，我也只能活到起。小戴，我祝愿你永远不要经历这种背叛和伤害。我祝你和他永远幸福地在一起，因为是个女人都应该得到幸福。
可恶心虚男人的回信：
莉莉,
请你不要把屋头的事搞得啷个哦火朝天的嘛！实际上，我们的婚姻8年前就莫得演了，更何况5年前就开始说离婚，到现在也没整伸展。我们的事情整得全世界都晓得了，何必喃！小戴没有做错啥子事哈！我要一直给她扎起的哈！我们还想哪天结婚得，抓子嘛！
只晓得用这种方式给别个说我和小戴有好恶毒是不得行的哈！晓得你、我和我们婚姻的人，都是给我扎起的，包括某某！我也莫法，把啷个多的人扯起进来了。莉莉，你挺起三，往前看三！
Dear Diane/Tao Dan Yang,
Over the past couple of years, you knew everything about my family. You knew when my kids had their soccer tournaments, you knew when they had their swimming practices. You even knew their baby nicknames. On December 18th, 2009, on a noon flight, I took my children to the U.S. for Christmas vacation. On the very same day, December 18th, 2009, on an afternoon flight, you and Yale took off for the beaches of Phuket and shopping streets of Bangkok for Christmas vacation. Diane, as a fellow woman, I often wondered if the level of ecstasy this vacation had brought you equates to the level of devastation this vacation had brought to my children and me. Diane, I often asked myself what was it like for you to sleep in the arms of another woman’s husband, other children’s father? I wondered if you ever thought about us, the children and the wife, that we are made of flesh and blood, that we have feelings, that we could get hurt, very hurt, devastatingly hurt. I pondered if you knew you were destroying a family, if you knew your joy would bring endless tears to us.
We went to Beijing last week for Chinese New Year. Your clothes were in our Beijing home. My son screamed:” Mommy, don’t touch those, they are disgusting! Set them on fire, burn them to hell. They are the devil’s cloth!” My children are hurt. My daughter, 9 years old, now says “Mommy, I don’t ever want to get married.” My son, 8 years old, says “Diane is our Voldemort!” The psychological damage this affair has done to my children is catastrophic. They are forever emotionally damaged. With this, I announce you the winner.
How do I feel, Diane? This affair is like 10 thousand knives stabbing and chopping my heart all at once. This affair has left me in so much pain that I don’t know how to heal myself. This affair has taught me tear supply can actually be infinite. This affair has crushed me, leaving me a corpse walking around with no heart. I don’t know how to deal with this kind of pain. I don’t know how to move on. But I have children. I must move on. Diane, I pray to God that you will never have to experience this kind of betrayal and hurt. I wish you and Yale a happy life together because, after all, we are all women and we all deserve to be happy.
With sincere regards,
Lily
